I received quite a number of requests to help with focus and concentration using NLP. So, I decided to do a general MP3 recording to show you some complexities, then write out a format to help.
As we know, focus is about getting into the appropriate emotional state. If you can’t do it right away, [...]
First of all, let me state what might be a little obvious here – many people aren’t driven by success. They are driven by failure. So, if this post kind of gets you wondering why I am talking about money as it relates success and prosperity, it’s not my intention to say that success and [...]
Here’s a simple exercise to gain clarity about what you want to achieve.
1. What do you want specifically?
2. Where are you now?
3. How will you know when you have it? What will you see, hear and feel when you have it?
4. What will this outcome get for you [...]
Well, nobody is perfect. We’re all human, and practitioners of NLP do their best to strive for higher standards. Let’s just say they are in the process of excellence rather than perfection.
That being said, there are practitioners who learn NLP to solve their own problems. Unfortunately, sometimes, that’s not enough. To get the most [...]
Yes. This is a level of unconscious competence. When you ask them how they do it, they say they just do it. That’s the reason why you need to be able to learn the modeling strategies in NLP because you will be asking a different set of questions that help to define your model’s processes [...]
Some people think that modeling leads to the loss of identity. Actually, most people already model, but on autopilot. We are already modeling people whom we have an affinity to. We already unconsciously learn from people who are around us whether we realize or not.
We have already been modeling. Children are great at doing [...]
There are a lot of unhappy people in the world, aren’t there.
What happens in your head when you’re unhappy? You think something isn’t right, or someone else should do something for you but didn’t – you basically think of things that are not going your way.
You may then make a conclusion that you’re [...]
I decided to just write my thoughts about public speaking, especially for people who are preparing for it, and wonder why they have the heebie-jeebies.
Let’s first of all say that it’s normal to feel anxious about public speaking. But what’s more important is that it is an indication of how much confidence you’ve built [...]
I came across the concept of Problem State and Solution State when I was first exposed to Robert Dilts’ work. I later came to understand it as the way in which our emotional states drive our actions.
Emotions are the pre-requisites for our behaviors. Suppose you have an outcome of losing weight. In this case, [...]
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